October brings all sorts of fun and spooky things. It's one of my favorite months of the year. And before you ask - I'm an apple cider donut kind of girl - the pumpkin spice everything is....old. I said what I said.
October is ALSO ADHD Awareness Month and I've got a lot of things going on.
I'm starting with a totally updated and refreshed resource that many of you have downloaded before. But it's totally updated and worth downloading for the newest tips! 10 Tips To Tackling Task Initiation - even if you've downloaded it before, get it again!
And - if you haven't joined the October ADHD Awareness Challenge - it's not too late, we start today! Get 31 tiny experiments (once a day) and see what works for YOUR brain.
What ADHD Coaching Actually Looks Like (Spoiler: It's Not Me Yelling "Just Use a Planner")
New Blog Post: What ADHD Coaching Actually Looks Like (Spoiler: It's Not Me Yelling "Just Use A Planner")
If you haven't ever worked with an ADHD Coach before, you might be wondering what exactly happens? Heck, even if you have worked with one before, how they work and how I work may be entirely different.
You may have questions like,
Will she make me do time blocking?
Will she just show me a new planner?"
Is she going to lecture me about color coding?"
The answer is definitely not.
Listen, if "just use a planner" worked, I'm sure you would have figured that out sometime between the first planner you ever bought and the seventy others that have come since.
ADHD coaching isn't about me teaching you how to become better at being neurotypical. You aren't broken and you don't need fixing.
It's about figuring out how your brain works, what's getting in the way, what's important to you, and what might make your life a little bit easier.
And if we can alleviate some grief, shame, or guilt? Even better.
Yes, sometimes we spend time getting s&^t done. But that's just a part of what we do.
That's it for today my friend. I hope we're still friends even if Pumkin Spice is what you wait for all year. But really - apple cider flavor all the way!
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